One’s life has value so long as one attributes value to the life of others, by means of love, friendship, indignation and compassion.
It’s good to try to find closure and reason out why people do things (I do the same), BUT if God closes the door on you and you don’t understand, just let Him. He’ll open another door for you. God works in mysterious ways and you’ve just got to have faith in Him to lead you with or without reason. Seek His reasons rather than the actions of others…
It’s so hard to forget pain, but it’s even harder to remember sweetness. We have no scar to show for happiness. We learn so little from peace.
Chuck Palahniuk, Diary